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□ trainee reporter Du a grid reporter Wang Weihao
National Day holiday approaching,mulberry outlet, the arrival of a new round of marriage boom, many of the "80" after the couple are actively planning a wedding. However,http://www.onlineflashgames.nl/activity/p/922031/, a wedding-choice questions let some new people complain incessantly.
In the 1980s and 1990s,jordan pas cher, there had been a divorce of the peak period, with the concept of marriage is increasingly diverse,http://www.ireysbar.com/ireyjapanese, there have been more and more families experiencing divorce. Now,http://www.zhibo6.cn/thread-885486-1-1.html, a 'divorced families hangover "began to attack: If marriage both parents divorced families were re-established, then the couple will face four family 8 parents - on the wedding ceremony and who give priority? Who Theravada? Newcomers how to worship their parents?
Awkward questions
Premarital disturbed: a difficult marriage choice questions
Xu and Ms. Liu is one pair getting married "80" lovers, they are faced with the difficult choice.
Junior high school, Mr. Xu's parents divorce because of emotional problems, he lives with his father. Over the years, never traveling between parents, each also form a new family. Ms. Liu also grew up in single-parent families, the father married then had a child, my mother still single.
So, on two of the wedding, in the end Which parents are eligible to wear the "father",piumini moncler, "mother" brooch, stood on the stage to accept the thanks and blessings ......
"I really want to do the wedding was warm, respectable, but not solve this problem if the father and aunt, mother and uncle four individuals while attending the wedding,nike tn pas cher, and the scene will become very embarrassing. Event, sudden,http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/make-your-own-website-mobile-web-design-builder-digital-item-/181281492980?/shockwave/download/download.cgi, unpleasant, let others see the joke. "Xu said.
"I do not want mom and dad on stage together." Miss Liu bluntly, the mother still bear a grudge against his father.
"We also thought not to do the wedding, travel wedding forget, but a lifetime wedding on time, how can I not do ah ......" the couple said.
User talk: not the courage to tell my parents, you do not come
And Mr. Xu have the same trouble,peuterey uomo, there are many couples.
Yesterday, friends, "popcorn" also complained to reporters: Nvwang is urgent cry
October 10, I will hold a wedding with her boyfriend. Future mother treated me very well. Can the night before, her mother suddenly said to me: 'wedding day, you can not let your mom and dad come? "This sentence is like a splash of cold water poured come. In the morning,hollister outlet, my mother also excited that she attended my wedding done pretty clothes!
For the mother of the lead, I do not understand. May her mother explained, "you think, your parents have to attend it, will bring their respective spouses now attend, and more embarrassed."
Later I had a cry, then wiped away tears to my mother called and asked if she could look for my father and two people wronged play a play, only two of them attended the wedding. Mom said: "What do you think uncle how it how you want it that there are those aunts and relatives at home how we want it???"
Wedding soon, can I have the courage to say, "You have not come to the bar."
After all, they brought me to this world ......
This topic one, immediately attracted a lot of the same boat, "80" large inverted grievances.
Netizen "November Rain" laments were remarried after he and his girlfriend's parents are divorced,nike tn, both parents combined total of eight,moncler outlet, all of them on the wedding if your office,http://www.sea-arts.com, the scene will be spectacular.
Netizen "Cats", said: Mom and Dad have been divorced for many years,hollister sale, currently with her mother, so I planned to mom here as the most important - please real mother + father after noon wedding ceremony on the evening ceremony, please do not pro dad + stepmother . But my heart is still hope, the wedding can be witnessed in the next birth parents.
Weapon parties
Expert opinion: Parents should be rational,woolrich outlet, with children as the most important wedding
For newcomers wedding encountered this problem, the provincial Academy of Social Sciences Research Associate and Calls to express their views, "This is not simply a personal problem, but a complex social problem, I think 'Well do not keep birth weight grace' - blood is not important, but it is important to raise the family. newcomers should be the basis of the status quo, that is, who bears the custody and guardianship obligations in their growth process, who should be at the wedding who were invited on the stage. "while , whether parents or new, should be flat mentality, the right to face it.
National secondary counselors Zhou Jianxun said, "I believe that parents must really love their children and therefore on 'their face and feel' and 'child' joy and happiness' problems, parents should fully solicit the views of children,moncler sito ufficiale, No matter what the holidays among adults, or should the wedding is important to children, can not let the children leave a lifetime of regret. "
Wedding Company: everything, for both ways
A well-known wedding company in Zhengzhou Manager Wang said that children from divorced families have been married too, but whether it is the birth parents or stepfather stepmother, will take care of the child's emotions in order to calm attend. But who came to power by the families of worship should according to a detailed analysis of the situation.
"There was one couple told us that his two pairs of parents,louboutin, relations are very good, he did not want to come forward 'look awkward' about please do not ask who will come directly 'decentralization' Let's help him operate." Wang said with a smile This time, the wedding company only bite the bullet and come out "all broken up", "If you really can not coordinate, it can only be carried out in batches wedding, but that will be greatly reduced degree of jubilation."
"We usually use the way, or make new biological parents came to power." Wedding ceremonies Wei Li Bo said that due to the wedding which worship  this one, thanks mainly to the new birth grace their parents. However, the parents came to arrange the order of worship on the subject,tn pas cher, there is stress - can be arranged at the same time the couple came by their father, worship,louboutin soldes, and then make the two sides came to power by the worship of the mother at the same time,http://rugby-osaka.org/news/article.cgi, "This is embarrassing to resolve the same stage of his first wife parents . "
Furthermore, the abolition of the parents came to power link,mulberry sale, is a relatively common choice. Wedding companies often use a number of ways to deal with - such as the blessing of both parents into a pre-recorded video played at the wedding, when introduced presenters,http://hn81.gotoip55.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=4510&fromuid=2649, each stand up and indicate what you can. As a newcomer,air max pas cher, wedding master of ceremonies will remind parents of their separate toast to you,peuterey outlet, to thank their birth or upbringing,woolrich sito ufficiale, to take care of several parents emotions.
All sound: work together to solve different troubles
Who came in the end of this,moncler sito ufficiale, it is difficult to have a unified standard, after all, every family has the cupboard.
Ms Lau said the public, if it is unable to choose, choose any form will hurt their loved ones, to cancel this one can, after all, "the children return to their parents, or to reflect life in the future, and do not represent a ritual what. "
Yesterday, the reporter consulted on the matter a number of wedding companies. This tricky "embarrassing" is not only plagued rookie, even a professional planning company also feel embarrassed. To this end, the wedding company prepared several programs for new people:
Four sets of countermeasures
1 Start early, multi consultations.
"Outflanking" contradictions and conflicts in progress gradually revealed and resolved.
2 min repeated banquets and weddings.
In both men and women of different parents each separately before the wedding. "Prioritize" to avoid conflict or contradiction between the two sides fairly positive contact force to avoid the escalation of conflict.
3 conflict transformation.
With the most fashionable way to solve - the whole wedding planning company organizations can save time,abercrombie pas cher, but also the "professional people to do things that make a professional."
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"Do not fight face to face" is the most self way to start a happy life of two people from two people have the final say.