标题: To make matters worse [打印本页] 作者: df9sr6n69 时间: 2014-10-16 00:03 标题: To make matters worse "New York Times" Weekend supplement freelance writer Daphne? Merkin successful career, had a daughter in appearance, different from ordinary people, only she knows, as a "disease of age," more than 40 years of chronic depression patient, she had been in battle every day with a sense of despair.
Merkin's recent decision to suspend the long history of psychological treatment began from childhood, and the memories of the treatment record book, perhaps she was "new" opportunities, or just a brief "spreading rumors."
From 10 years old to receive psychological treatment
Merkin aged 56, she received psychological treatment time span of 45 years. Beginning in childhood, psychotherapy became her indispensable part of life.
For silent gold,sito ufficiale moncler piumini, depression brings a sense of despair and abandonment familiar. She said that whenever their childhood photos look, you will see the year their shining eyes and smiles. In the eyes of others, it is a innocent child; Only Mo Kim, I know, she was already like other patients with depression, put on a pair of "I'm fine" mask to face the world.
Merkin from about age 5 or 6 years old, began to feel anxious for the future life. She always felt that things are not to their desire to develop, although in part because she was born in a family of many children,http://www.yqtxt.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, personal opinion is difficult to get attention.
About eight years old, away from home and their parents out of fear and anxiety, Mo Kim refused to go to school. 10 years old, she began to cry more than often, had entered the hospital for treatment.
Mo Kim said she did not know at that time whether it has been diagnosed with depression, but after a few years in retrospect,http://www.0935tc.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=113094&extra=, a child to go to school, it is chronic depression patients do not want to leave home performance.
1950s to 1960s America, is Sigmund? Freudian psychoanalysis of the most popular period. Then, see a psychiatrist is a stylish,http://bbs.cdscjd.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=5766013, even proud thing. However, a 10-year-old children receive psychological treatment is still rare. Therefore, Merkin first time to see a psychiatrist, psychological filled stigma.
To make matters worse, to her doctor doctors and Mo Kim Walsh different religious beliefs, the latter preconceived think there is a gulf between the two. Dr. Walsh friendly attitude even let Merkin doubt.
For the time of silent gold, both inside and outside the clinic belong to two worlds. In the outside world, whenever she spoke, someone to listen; but on the inside world, people always ignore her, that she's anxious for no apparent reason or for ridiculous reasons.
Bright end of the tunnel is a train
In 40 years of experience in medical treatment, Merkin to more than a psychiatrist or therapist for treatment, tried various drugs or treatments. According to her statement, he is a depression treatment methods and drugs "walking dictionary."
Previously, each time to see a new psychiatrist, trying new drugs or treatments, silent Waldo expect miracles happen, I hope this can be completely cured of their disease. However, once again disappointed to let Mo Kim gradually lost confidence. She said that 40 years ago, their total in the psychiatrist's office to talk to other people talk about how much I love the tone of longing death.
Mo Kim said, in a way, once people suffering from depression, will never completely heal. It is in a corner of the human heart wandering lull due to treatment and re-accumulation of energy to be making a comeback at some point.
Mo Kim said she increasingly difficult to understand how someone could see the bright side of life, give yourself hope. Wake up every morning, her mind is always such a thought: Why are you so there is no hope. Too late. Give it up. Go back to sleep. No hope.
Compared to the average person, always with depression see the dark side of things. Merkin made a vivid metaphor, it's like people walking in a long tunnel, saw the end of the tunnel appears bright. In most people's eyes, bright mean outlet; while depressed patients will think: Is this not an oncoming train is what
Mo Kim said she knew a lot of people will be regarded as a coward and selfish suicidal behavior, but she believes that with the longer duration of depression, sicker patients will gradually be regarded as the only way to get relief suicide. She said that did not commit suicide because of worry about their daughter's death will bring great harm; but at the same time, she always felt her departure means that the patch is removed the head of the clouds.
Merkin wrote often to the media, about his struggle with depression experience. From her words, you can clearly feel her pain.
"Lack of human touch,hogan beige," the psychiatrist who
Merkin recalls his experience with more than a psychiatrist. She said that these doctors are men and women of different ages, the treatment methods used are also differences, but most doctors have in common is that they lack the human touch. Mo Kim believes that in the eyes of the doctors, he was just mental illness, rather than a flesh and blood person. In their view, the treatment of unilateral acts, patients seek treatment, doctors prescribe medication, the process is not a mutually interactive.
One of the doctors strongly recommend Merkin electroshock therapy, in total disregard of her fears; treatment of a doctor forced Merkin memories of past painful experiences, and ultimately made her collapse admission.
Merkin over 30 years old, her mother had a doctor for help, the latter proposal Merkin had intermittent contact with her boyfriend of six years of marriage, think that it can alleviate her condition. But in fact, Merkin was canceled a few months ago in this marriage with her boyfriend.
The doctor and mother were considered Merkin, Merkin is a loyal person, the possibility of "derailment" divorce is unlikely. Then, after a hasty wedding preparations after three weeks after the meeting. Mo Kim said he "got married" is the possibility to reduce the incidence of repetitive.
Marriage ending yes, Mo Kim and her husband divorced after five years.
Mo Kim recalls her childhood, never had a psychiatrist to let her sit in his lap, giving her comfort; 40 years, doctors have never had to do anything to stop her,hogan rebel prezzo, even though it is debatable. Doctors always talk about her illness with no emotional rhetoric, never put over their feelings.
The only exception is A doctor. Mo Kim said his more than 20 years of age to accept his treatment, although they often quarreled doctor, but A doctor is the only one to get the other side to make her feel recognized, can be completely trusted doctor. However, A doctor died of illness soon. Until now, Merkin still think he is the man most likely to bring a miracle.
These therapeutic experience, so Merkin treatment of depression, and even should not question the treatment should be implemented. She sometimes thought, doctors practicing medicine just for the money, rather than helping patients.
Suspect but relies
Mo Kim said, 40 years of treatment experience although it can not let yourself saying "chronic illness into health," but given treatment for a psychiatrist when she was familiar. Doctors often say that psychotherapy can "transform" the patient or give them a "new life",http://onigdesign.com/error.html, but that is not always the case.
According to Freud, psychotherapy is not to find ways to cure mental illness, but rather "hysterical pain" into "common misfortune." This means that no progress psychotherapy strict criteria to determine treatment, there is no exact treatment goals can not guarantee no recurrence of the disease, can not determine the adequate number of treatment.
Mo Kim questioned said that if Freud said is true, then what is the significance treated treatments take effect she believes that in the absence of strict standards, the patient is difficult to determine at what stage the progression to the most appropriate treatment, which The most effective kind of treatment and doctor's commitment to it just to comfort the patient "blank check."
Mo Kim believes that in the field of psychological treatment, the entire industry rules favor the doctor. For example, unable to determine the end of treatment time,outlet scarpe hogan, even if there is no progress in therapy for a long time, doctors can also continue to implement the original plan. Meanwhile, the doctor can be attributed to the lack of progress or the patient does not try to "resist" the treatment, rather than the lack of treatment options exist.
Mental illness expert Robert? Michels in the "spirit of the analysis and its discontent," wrote an article in the patient's view, "the purpose of the presence of a psychiatrist or therapist is not providing services to them." "Patients want to answer, the doctor asked them questions; patients want to suggest, trained doctors are not allowed to do so; patients want to support and love, the doctor explained the disease and the cause; patients want to feel better, the doctor was talking about changing the character. "
In addition, the treatment methods used in different psychiatrist, although there are differences, but there are also a lot of overlap, so that an effective method to determine which treatment becomes more difficult.
Merkin said he stopped by the minister to consider treatment. But on the other hand, 40 years of treatment experience made her psychiatrist and treatment of dependence, worried that once stopped to possible bad consequences.
"Breathe a fresh air."
Despite long plagued by depression, Merkin still completed graduate studies to become a literary critic, essayist and novelist. She has worked in several media in New York, now a freelance writer, "New York Times" Weekend Supplement, the 1980s also published a novel.
Not long ago, Kim went silent L doctor's office, told the latter to decide the implementation of a year and a half of treatment interruption. As this is a complete end or temporarily suspend,moncler jacken, Merkin did not give a precise answer. To her surprise, L doctor did not say that her decision was a mistake and tried to persuade her to give up, but agreed to her request, while enthusiastically said Merkin can come back at any time to continue treatment.
Mo Kim said she took pleasure to be free of the fear and worry away from L deterioration doctor's clinic. On the road, she deliberately slow down, step by step, step on the floor, it seems that this method can confirm her existence. She found that left the psychiatrist,[url=http://z-tech.jp/bbs1/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=5319&page=1http://z-tech.jp/bbs1/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=5319&page=1[/url], the world still exists.
Merkin is writing his memoirs, about his many years of experience receiving treatment for depression. She wrote to the "New York Times" article written in the weekend supplement, she sometimes does psychotherapy would cast doubt on the treatment made her feel trapped in an unpleasant childhood experiences, their money spent on treatment boondoggle . But she admitted that she benefited from psychotherapy in some respects. By accepting treatment,scarpe hogan saldi, she can from other people's point of view to look at ourselves.
"You can say that psychotherapy is my regulator," she wrote, "psychotherapy can talk to me a place to express their feelings,hogan donna outlet, to help release the pressure in my mind."
"Psychotherapy is my buffer, while pushing me forward; after all, it allows you to examine, to teach you to recognize the fact that if the years of therapy I formation is dependent, I decided it was a breath of fresh air when the ....... However,http://www.ykmoa.com/home.php?mod=space&uid=26641, I'm sure, in the near future,prezzo scarpe hogan, I would definitely go on the road to another psychiatrist clinic to continue my story. "(Lin Hao)
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According to the 2005-2008 survey, American adults over the age of 20 in about 7 percent suffer from depression.
United States Department of Health and Human Services in October 2007 published a survey report on the United States in different occupational groups, the incidence of depression. The report shows that in the 21 categories of occupational groups most likely to suffer from depression are people who work in the personal care, such as infant and child care staff, such as nursing home care workers,prezzi hogan, the incidence rate of up to 11%.
Is the second highest incidence of cooks, waiters and other catering service personnel,moncler spaccio online, of them 10.3% of people with depression. Followed by health and social workers,scarpe hogan interactive donna, the incidence rate was 9.6%. Engineers, architects and surveyors have the lowest rate of depression, the incidence rate was 4.3%.
The report also pointed out that the average person working full-time incidence rate of 7%, significantly lower than the 12.7% of the unemployed.
The survey also found that the incidence of women is much higher than men, the incidence slightly older young people.
The main symptoms of depression is difficult to extricate themselves depressed mood, often accompanied by insomnia, constipation, abnormal cardiovascular conditions,http://www.thecandyland.org/item/create_form/1581, nameless pain and physical discomfort, the patient suffered mental torture while much physical pain.
Causes of depression are complex, including genetic factors, environmental factors and personality factors. Where one of the parents who suffer from depression, the prevalence increased likelihood of children 10 times. Many patients have a family breakdown, unemployment or poverty unfortunate experience. In addition, introverted, do not like contacts, not good to vent negative emotions people are more likely to suffer from depression.
Because patients with depression are often misunderstood by the people around and discrimination, so patients are often reluctant to admit that they are suffering from depression, do not want to see a doctor, the result is to make the condition worse,hogan saldi, many patients do not seek immediate medical attention and cardiovascular disease and more serious diseases such as cancer, 15% of patients with depression and even suicide.
The report notes that depression has become an intractable social problems, depression, loss of the United States in recent years due to a number of productivity, annual economic losses of up to 30 billion to 44 billion U.S. dollars. (Lin Hao)